Back in 2018, I made a pretty viral video on YouTube about the pros/cons of dating a younger man. On that channel, that was one of my more popular videos with high engagement. Unfortunately, I got locked out of the Google account. Now, since I am back writing again, I figured I will talk about it here.
Younger men to me are big hits, or misses. Trust me, I know that dating in 2023 is like torturing yourself-in the worst way. But if you are a cheesy, sucker-for-love, hopeless romantic, you don’t want to just literally GIVE UP ON LOVE. Back to the pros and cons of dating younger men, here are my three advices.
Pros:
1. They aren’t bitter about relationships and women yet… unless they started early.
Younger men are not necessarily used to the dating scene as of yet. For that reason, they are usually not harboring past hurts from previous relationships. Also, younger men are able to heal a little faster and not take things so personally, per se.
2. They are down to do more.
Since I’m not doing my pros and cons on older men (unless you guys ask), I will speak on one con. Older men are not typically open to fun things because they may feel that they are no longer able to do many activities. The truth is that many are set in their ways, and may not see certain things as fun anymore. Well, that’s not a younger guy’s thought process, though you know you were ready for the world while you were in your youth, and wish somebody would even dare get in your way! Younger men are normally ready for action.
3. Younger men who want to not only please you sexually, but in the everyday life too.
Younger men are so endearing to make you smile. It’s so refreshing and sweet to have such a disposition around you. It’s an amazing feeling when a younger man is courting/dating you.
Cons:
1. The game playing is off the charts!
Younger guys may not be developed emotionally to take a mature relationship seriously. Normally, you have to determine days by taking your time to see how the dynamic will play out. The thing is with a younger man, their games become super annoying and constant.
2. You two may not be able to relate to one another.
Let’s say, for example; if he is in to the PlayStation 5 (gaming systems), and he plays them often, you may not like that aspect of him and this can take you both nowhere fast. It is quite imperative to have time with each other before establishing any commitment. I can almost guarantee that your younger men will show a silly your side that most older mature women will find as a “red-flag”. But you must not disqualify him if most of his traits are promising, for there’s truly no perfect man (nor woman).
3. His unhealthy attachment to his mother, could pose as a potential problem.
OK, I will be transparent, I’ve seen this treat an old man to-having experienced it first hand. The most promising thing to do in this particular situation is to address it early. Of course most women want to have a peaceful coexistence with their partners’ parents, or mother for that matter. Shame to tell you if your man refuses to understand your frustration, and confront his mother early on, you can bet that you’ll never win.
All-in-all, I hope this advice is helpful to you on your longest dating journey. Remember, please, don’t EVER give up on the love you seek!
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